https://ayansoul.wixsite.com/mysite-1 Here is a little sneak peek of my latest blog post Desire vs. 'Crush' I don’t want you, but I got a crush on you. Y’all ever just admire someone’s looks and allow them to reciprocate that as well, but moving forward and actually pursuing them or transitioning from a crush to a potential boo does not move you in any way shape or form. Because SAME. Having an innocent crush is fun, just teasing the idea of entertaining their fine self is so thrilling. Although sometimes I ask myself if I need to show real desire, but the very thought of being in a relationship with this “Crush” is just not as appealing or nearly as thrilling. I ask myself, is this normal? To provoke and entertain their attention when anything further than that is far from my desire. Am I leading them on, only to reach a dead end? As I self-evaluate my thoughts, I realized one thing. This is completely okay. Sometimes the unthinkable happens; our heart actually cooperates with our mind to stop us from entering something we know and feel is not meant to happen. When this rare cooperation of the mind and the heart occurs, we can actually make sense of the situation and make peace with it.